Trauma isn’t the end of your story …

Christ-centered healing is the beginning

​Trauma-Informed
Coaching

Find healing from betrayal trauma, domestic abuse, or difficult marital issues through the restorative love of Christ.

I journey with women as they move from the pain of trauma and betrayal and back into their true selves.

Traveling together, I help them recapture their unique talents, strengths, boundaries, and God-given dignity. Touching the hem of God's robe (Matt. 9:21), we navigate the Christ-centered journey toward healing and restoration.

“If you are what you ought to be, you will light a fire in all the world!"

— St. Catherine of Siena

I offer individual or group coaching with

through Hope’s Garden

What to Expect

These are 8 or 12-week coaching groups, each limited to 5 participants.  Within a small group of your peers, you will work through our 6-Session video course, The CHRIST Program. Each week in group, participants will debrief the video teaching, look at the worksheets and exercises together, ask questions, and talk through scenarios, benefiting from one another’s sharing and stories.

IMPORTANT: This registration is for the 8-week coaching group only and does not include access to the video subscription. If you have not already subscribed to The CHRIST Program 6-session video course, you can do so at a reduced rate of $99, upon registering for a coaching group using the form below.

What You Will Learn

  • Learn Christ-centered therapeutic skills to aid in coping with the anxiety, stress, and trauma responses

  • Learn to live from a Christ-centered mind by balancing emotions and reason to guide our actions

  • Understand that while our feelings are not facts, they are valid and can help us to understand our needs and inform our decisions.

  • Become aware of how our thoughts can gently guide or de-rail our day

  • Learn to take our thoughts captive and create new neural pathways to help us to see the truth, goodness, and beauty that surrounds us

  • Learn to navigate and respond to triggers in healthy ways that allow our wounds to continue to heal

  • Learn to slow down and reclaim calm, peace, and joy in life

Jenny duBay

Trauma-Informed Coach

Using Biblical inspiration as well as the wisdom of the medieval mystics, my trauma-informed spiritual coaching ministry helps Christian women move forward, enabling them to progress from where they currently are to where they ideally envision themselves to be.

In the words of St. Catherine of Siena, "If you are what you ought to be, you will light a fire in all the world!"

As a certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist, and Trauma-Informed Christian coach, I know what a huge emotional, spiritual, physical and psychological impact intimate and complex trauma can have on a person. My journey in this field began with personal experience and includes the lessons and insights I’ve gained both personally and professionally as I’ve traveled the path to healing and inner reintegration.

​My mission is to help women gain clarity and understanding, to reclaim their true selves, made in God’s image and likeness, and touch the hem of God’s robe.

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You Don’t Have to Heal Alone

We've all known loss and trauma in our lives. In this fallen world, it's unavoidable. Whether our tragedy is a result of violence, betrayal, physical ailments, loss of loved ones, or for any other reason, these traumas leave us stunned and suffering. ​God never promised we wouldn't have trials and even heart-wrenching sufferings in our lives -- but He has promised to walk with us during these difficult times.
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​We have to allow His graces to flow through us by reaching out, by touching the hem of His robe, by asking for-- and being open to--receiving His love. ​Only Jesus can staunch the bleeding out of our wounds. Only He can bring us back to life.

I invite you to read more about my ministry, my work with trauma survivors, and my own personal journey from tragedy to triumph. If you have any questions or want to reach out to me, please contact me. I'd love to hear from you.

Training & Qualifications

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Rooted in theology. Grounded in trauma-informed care. Focused on healing.

Trauma-Informed Coaching & Mental Health

  • ICF & CPD Certified Somatic Trauma-Informed Life Coach, The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology (Caroline Strawson)

  • CPD Certified Narcissistic Trauma-Informed Coaching Specialist, The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology

  • Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology

  • CDP & CMA Accredited Certification in Borderline Personality Awareness, Centre of Excellence

  • C-DGS Specialist in Deconstructing Gaslighting Certification

  • IFS (Internal Family Systems) Trained Life Coach

Wellness & Nutrition

  • Certified Wellness Coach

  • Certified Nutrition Coach (Both through the American College of Healthcare Sciences)

  • Certified Wellness Consultant and Christian Life Coach

Domestic Abuse & Advocacy

  • Violence and Abuse in Catholic & Christian Families, Pax in Familia

  • Breaking the Code: Understanding the Different Motives of Those Who Batter, Family Peace Initiative

  • Domestic Abuse Support Group Facilitator, Hope’s Garden

  • Family of Origin Abuse & Marriages in Recovery Facilitator, Hope’s Garden

  • Co-Facilitator, Roses of Tepeyac peer support group, Hope’s Garden

  • Affiliated with Catholics for Family Peace

Writing, Speaking & Ministry

  • Founder of Create Soul Space, a resource and community for survivors of domestic abuse

  • Author of The Prodigal Parishioner, Create Soul Space, and multiple books (published & forthcoming)

  • Publisher of The Prodigal Parishioner and Create Soul Space newsletters

  • Contributor to Missio Dei, Hope's Garden, and other publications

  • Writer and speaker for a variety of media outlets

Faith & Theology

  • BA in Catholic Theology, Catholic Distance University in conjunction with Holy Apostles College & Seminary

  • Certified in Christian Prayer, Institute of Catholic Culture

  • Certified in Classics in Prayer and the Spiritual Life, Catholic Distance University

Please Note

I provide coaching services for those who are in a safe place (not in physical harm) and are seeking to heal from abuse and trauma. If theres’s physical abuse present, I highly recommend local professional help from a domestic abuse shelter or other professional resources.

My area of expertise is with female clients, so in order to provide the best service to everyone, I don't accept male clients. If you're a man in need of trusted, Catholic coaching, I highly recommend contacting my colleague, Bernhard Streisselberger of Streisselberger Coaching & Consulting. 

About Bernhard:

"I have been working with abuse victims for more than 10 years -- in private practice as well as in different retreat settings. In the recent three years I have immersed myself in the studies of narcissistic abuse. I was able to help raise awareness about this form of emotional/spiritual violence, teach my clients on how to protect themselves, receive healing and regain their unique God given dignity."